Fatima Kazee, Author at zaparents

Ensuring your teenagers are safe online

by Fatima Kazee | boundaries, internet, internet security, rules, technology | 0 comments

There’s no escaping it… Kids and technology usage are a reality and the sooner parents realise this, the better. Instead of trying to keep your child in the dark ages (which seems to be the 90s for kids of today) perhaps parents ought to equip themselves with important information that will assist them in keeping tabs on their child’s internet usage without being over-intrusive, especially with teens.

Why sport extra murals are great for your kids

by Fatima Kazee | child development, Co-curricular activities | 0 comments

Sport extra murals are especially popular for the majority of kids. For years and years, kids have had the opportunity to engage in extra murals and now, the list of sport related extra-curricular activities is almost exhaustive. Kids will enjoy the numerous benefits of engaging in sport extra murals, both physically and mentally.

Sun protection doesn’t disappear in winter for your child’s delicate skin

by Fatima Kazee | health | 0 comments

Many people mistakenly believe that they do not need to apply sunscreen in winter or on cloudy days. Did you know that the sun is closer to the earth during the winter months? Yes it is and this means that the sun’s rays are harsher and stronger than in summer.

Keep your child safe online with LucidView Enforcer

by Fatima Kazee | boundaries, internet, technology, technology | 0 comments

Would you ever consider driving your kids around without buckling them up in a seat belt? How about riding their bikes without a helmet? No, you wouldn’t. Why then are we allowing our kids to use the internet without any safety or security measures in place?

Becoming mom to a teenager

by Fatima Kazee | motherhood, teens | 10 comments

And so it has arrived… the year my son becomes a teenager. Looking back to the time he was born, I remember how so many parents were willing to give me all kinds of advice about having a baby. (Some not so welcomed but taken nonetheless) But as they get older and reach different phases of their lives (and mine), it seems the advice runs drier. Grandparents often tell stories about when we were their age but times are so different that it’s as though we’re dealing with a new species of human.

Extra murals – how to decide what to do

by Fatima Kazee | Co-curricular activities | 3 comments

We all want to do the best for our kids. When it comes to their well being and development, this couldn’t be more true. So how do we as parents navigate the issue of extra murals? Try everything under the sun or focus on something that your child loves? How would you know what your child loves if you don’t try everything under the sun?

Book review: Powerful by Alicia Thomas-Woolf

by Fatima Kazee | bullying, emotions, music CDs | 0 comments

It’s the start of the new school year and for many children it’s an exciting time. For some though the return to school may be riddled with anxiety and stress, possibly caused by bullying. A parent’s first reaction may be one of rage and anger, no parent wants their child to be the subject of bullying. I’ve come across a lovely book and CD by Alicia Thomas-Woolf that will help parents teach their kids to deal with bullying positively.

Safety tips for the festive season

by Fatima Kazee | going away, holidays, safety | 0 comments

The festive season is notorious for break-ins, hold-ups and all sorts of attempts at ruining a perfectly good end to the year. Here are a few tips to bear in mind before you hit the road… or the malls.

Rape, schools and our children

by Fatima Kazee | social issues, violence | 1 comment

Recently, as we drive to and from school everyday, news boards flash the word rape daily… rape in schools, rape in Hollywood, rape by caregivers, by family members and war criminals.

ADHD, highly sensitive or highly intelligent?

by Fatima Kazee | ADHD, education, learning, special needs | 14 comments

Is it at all possible that a child is not ADHD but rather highly sensitive? What we as human beings take into our brain is usually regulated, could “ADHD” kids just lack this regulation?

Making Mandela Day last

by Fatima Kazee | giving, human rights, poverty, social issues | 0 comments

So let’s make this Mandela Day the start of ongoing initiatives that are sustainable, that render good friendships between unlikely friends and that make a lasting difference – because then we can truly feel the spirit of Mandela and his great actions.

How is racial prejudice passed on to kids?

by Fatima Kazee | prejudice | 0 comments

I’ll never forget the day my middle son came home from preschool and told me that he’d learned about different people and cultures in the world. Now you may have noticed that people of Indian descent (like myself) in SA have many different complexions And he says to me, “You know you get all colours of people mama…

Have we lost the parenting plot?

by Fatima Kazee | being present | 8 comments

What I’ve learned is that my preoccupation and obsessive need to keep things organised and controlled is where my failure lies in being a better parent.